So much has been said about communication, books, audio, sermons, teachings and so much more yet! Yet! This one pillar is still wreaking havoc in marriages today simply because couples does not want to master the art of communication. You can be so much happier if you can just master this one skill. We have a few sessions coming up this year on some secret communication skills that you can implement and improve your marriage today. Be sure to keep looking at the event tabs so you can register and be a part of it.

Good practical and effective communication is vital for any relationship to work properly; not under-communication, not over-communication or no-communication. Good communication is essential and you can see it working in great relationships. There are different types of communication styles. Couples have to figure out their own little nuances that works for them but you see one common denominator in all of them. Its effective both ways. One party speaks, the other one listens and understands, agree or dis-agree or and vise-versa. These are things that are taught regularly in our sessions here at UCFM.

By the time you begin screaming, shouting, hitting and breaking pictures in the room you’ve lost the argument and nothing that you do here after is getting through. It might feel good to you that you’ve hit someone, break something or whatever your emotional state is telling you to do now, but it solves nothing. It’s a temporary high that will soon dissipate. Once you are off that high, you now feel drain and empty while your partner is either more hurt or in a worse position before you started down this destructive path. If all it does is make you happy, then what’s the point if the other party is still not going to understand what is it that you wanted to achieve.

By the time you begin screaming, shouting, hitting and breaking pictures in the room you’ve lost the argument and nothing that you do here after is getting through.

• Just do it! just talk to each other..you’ll be surprise
• Screaming and shouting is not communicating..its arguing
• Do you listen and understand or do you just want to be heard?
• Can you sit as a couple and have a meaningful conversation without throwing a tantrum?
• How do you communicate with your spouse?